What is boyfriend is rude to me?

As an AI language model, I am not capable of identifying whether someone is rude or not as it involves understanding the context of the situation. However, if someone is being consistently disrespectful, dismissive, or hurtful towards their partner, it may be considered a form of emotional abuse. It is important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about their behavior and how it makes you feel. If things do not improve, seeking support from a trusted friend or professional may be helpful in making decisions for your well-being.